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Nothing New under the sun

     Over the past few weeks/months I’ve been working with my 75 year old uncle-in-law on my renovation project.  He’s an interesting character in his own right and has equally out of control characters as friends or partners in crime who share talents in all things home construction. On this particular day  as we were laying tile he out of  ...

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GoodMom is BAaaaack!

After thinking and praying and just following my inner spirit, I decided to relaunch the sight.  Lots has happened since my last post.  I got re-married, my eldest son is in College and trying to figure out the world as a 20 year old which means indirectly he is wearing me out totally!  Let’s not exclude my completely out of his mind 14 year old  ...

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Christmas without YOU

Christmas without YOU   I have to say.. this has been one of the best holidays I’ve had in a while.. as in several years.   From the outside you’d never know we were festive or in the holiday spirit.  There were no lights strung outside or inside for that matter.  No tree, no decorations, not even an angel nor stockings flanked the fireplace.  One  ...

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Emotional/Relational QuickSand

Ever had the feeling you were stuck in the mudd about something?  Just not making progress or moving forward? A friend guy and I were talking about a lady friend of his who has been physically separated from her spouse for over 3 years.   When he started probing and asking why she/they haven’t gotten divorced yet she responsed as most women in  ...

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P.D.A. or P.D.N-O-T so much

This is a PSA for all my PDA’ers. A cautionary tale. When P.D.A  (public displays of affection) goes wrong and too far.   This past weekend I decided I would get a room and just have a DO Me type weekend.  The “plan” included shopping, sipping, eating and  chillaxing.  Mission was accomplished.   Somewhere in the midst of my chillaxing I decided  ...

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Viewers box

I received an inbox message from one of my followers from over seas that is going through a divorce at this time.   In short the message was about her dealing with a difficult out for the jugular soon to be Ex-husband who is out for blood.  She’s losing everything including  her  ability to manage the situation.    I wanted to publicly address the  ...

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Divorce Suxs..

  There are no good or bad divorces… friendly maybe, but good?…. Not so much and mines would be no exception to that rule.  What the heck is going on I’ve asked myself repeatedly over the past few weeks?  It seems we make 2 steps forward and 3 steps back.   I’m talking about the external manifestation of divorce on children.  Its  ...

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