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The “L”  word

    The use of the L word is something that I take very seriously.  It’s a verb and not a noun.  It requires actions, feelings, emotions and more than words can say, but coupled with words … it has the makings of something AMAZING!  What is the L-word?  LOVE! For the majority of my youth and on into my adult life I didn’t believe in Love.  By  ...

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Emotional/Relational QuickSand

Ever had the feeling you were stuck in the mudd about something?  Just not making progress or moving forward? A friend guy and I were talking about a lady friend of his who has been physically separated from her spouse for over 3 years.   When he started probing and asking why she/they haven’t gotten divorced yet she responsed as most women in  ...

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P.D.A. or P.D.N-O-T so much

This is a PSA for all my PDA’ers. A cautionary tale. When P.D.A  (public displays of affection) goes wrong and too far.   This past weekend I decided I would get a room and just have a DO Me type weekend.  The “plan” included shopping, sipping, eating and  chillaxing.  Mission was accomplished.   Somewhere in the midst of my chillaxing I decided  ...

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Viewers box

I received an inbox message from one of my followers from over seas that is going through a divorce at this time.   In short the message was about her dealing with a difficult out for the jugular soon to be Ex-husband who is out for blood.  She’s losing everything including  her  ability to manage the situation.    I wanted to publicly address the  ...

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Divorce Suxs..

  There are no good or bad divorces… friendly maybe, but good?…. Not so much and mines would be no exception to that rule.  What the heck is going on I’ve asked myself repeatedly over the past few weeks?  It seems we make 2 steps forward and 3 steps back.   I’m talking about the external manifestation of divorce on children.  Its  ...

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my BIG Fat BLENDED family

When life hands you 6 kids…. blend them together.   I realized over this past weekend what a special family situation I have.   In my wildest dreams I wouldn’t have guessed things to turn out this way.   What I’ve learned along the way about dating people with children of any age, but specifically under the age of 18 is that you have to  ...

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Friend or parent?

I’m not your Friend… I’m your parent!  How many times have you uttered those words?  I think I’ve had a slight change of heart to that phrase or shall I say let me append that phrase.  Here’s why.  I’m glad and still a wee bit uncomfortable but more thankful that he decided to hesitantly, almost dreadfully have a conversation with me about SEX over the  ...

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